Abbreviations are often used out of context in proposals due to different education, work experience, and cultures of writers and readers.
Acronyms can be misunderstood:
ATM = Asynchronous Transfer Mode
Automatic Teller Machine
Air Traffic Management
Define potentially unfamiliar abbreviations.
| — | Larry Newman, author of the Shipley Proposal Guide and obvious Internet troll |
1. Don’t touch anyone without their consent.
I seriously can’t believe I even have to say this. But just don’t. Don’t grab my arm in a store, sweep my hair behind my ear while we’re standing in line, touch my leg, etc… I don’t care that you’re just trying to “get a better look.” I don’t know you and you’re touching my body.
2. Do not lift up someone’s clothing!
Ahhh! I still can’t believe this happens. And I’m not alone — every single one of my tattooed girlfriends has horror stories about people grabbing them, touching them, lifting up sleeves, shirts, or even pulling on their waistbands. WTF?!
3. They don’t all have a story.
Actually, most of them do — but a lot of them are personal or private. If I’ve just met you and you’re grilling me, I’m not going to want to share them with you.
4. Piggybacking on the above — don’t make a snide comment or insist that I defend them to you.
I’m not going to walk around telling everyone that they should have tattoos or pink hair or mullets or glasses or whatever. It doesn’t bother me that you don’t have tattoos, I don’t see why it should severely offend you that I do. (The “you” here being random stranger, new acquaintance or drunk relative I rarely see).
5. If you’re a medical professional, it is not appropriate to comment on my tattoos unless their presence directly affects your ability to treat me.
Appropriate example: My new allergist says, “Alli, since your arm is heavily covered is it alright with you if I do the prick test on your back? We’ll be able to see it better there since it’s less covered.”
Inappropriate example: A doctor (who I no longer see), right as she’s doing an internal pelvic exam, says, “You’re so covered, you’ve even got ink on your stomach.” Lady, your hand is up my vag — if we’re not getting sexy, I don’t want to talk about my tattoos.
6. Don’t feel bad for my parents.
Dear friends, and commenters, I know we’ve all heard this before — for any “questionable” decision we’ve made. “Oh what do your parents say?” or “Oh your poor parents!” Listen, random stranger, my parents may not love that I’m as decorated as I am but they do love that I’m happy, self assured, successful, and independent.
7. Please don’t show me yours.
Drunk dudes seem to sincerely believe that girls with tattoos are going to jump their bones the second we see the faded, scratched, tequila worm or Tasmanian devil they got when they were drunk in college. I have fun talking about my tattoos with fellow collectors, or nice, interesting, earnest people — I don’t so much enjoy seeing a dude I barely know start to disrobe in the middle of a bar because he wants to show me something. (This seriously happens All. The. Time).
8. Don’t point at me.
I’m sure your mother/third grade teacher/auntie told you that it’s rude. The end.
9. Do feel free to introduce yourself and tell me that you were curious about my tattoos.
If you’re a nice, non-invasive person willing to talk to me like I’m human, sure, I’ll chat with you. Will I lift up my shirt in the middle of the bar like the aforementioned dude-guy? No. But I’ll happily take five minutes to have a polite conversation with you — all you have to do is treat me like a person.
10. Do feel free to ask me where I got them done.
The people who tattoo me are amazing — talented, friendly, kind. I’m happy to send you their way.
this is a really good article, click the link and check it out!
A lot of these things don’t even have to be about tattoos. It’s about respecting another person’s personal space. Anyway this is really rad.
Love this.
Only one of mine (total count: 2 …currently) is visible and I’ve still gotten a lot of these. It’s absurd.
I’ve had the biggest problem with number 2, almost exclusively with women. They probably thought they have a pass because I’m a guy, so I can only imagine how they’d react if I pulled at their top trying to get a better look at “them titties.”
| — | Troy Patterson, “The Old-Fashioned: A Complete History and Guide to This Classic Cocktail.” Slate |
Sleep well, Internet.
“He was nice,” said one neighbor who asked not to be identified. “Quiet, though. Only came out to take out his garbage or talk to the mailman.”
Another was surprised to find out he had an entire puppet kingdom in his basement.
“I mean, I know he changed his clothes every time he went out and came back in, but … man. You think you know somebody, and then, wham, six missing women.”
“Lady” Elaine is currently in protective custody, and a team of counselors are working around the clock to restore her mind’s natural separation of real and make-believe.
@SirChuggles56
Chris Taylor
@rick_snee I’ll have you know that I and my tentacles have not yiffed enough!
